Something on my mind

I had the day off on Friday and had a conversation with a good friend about something that I guess never really occurred to me. You see when I generally go out I dress very comfortably. And for me dressing comfortably... well let's just say it I look like a giant kid. There's obviously nothing wrong with this but I am 34 going on 35 looking like I'm going on 12.

This made me think about things. In general clothes don't make the man. I like the clothes I have yes but really they are just clothes and there are many different other clothes I like as well. In fact I have over the years changed clothing styles so it's not overly unusual. If people like me as I am but judge me by my clothes then hey they're clothes I can change them.

The point is he didn't tell me this to mean, even if it did hurt when I first heard it, he told me this because he wanted to help me, and really ever since getting out of my relationship I've been trying to grow and change and become better. Maybe it's time to graduate to adult clothes then.